My Husband Didnt Want Me to Go on Vacation With His Family

A difficult or stressful situation with in-laws can cause undue stress and anxiety, making you feel rejected and undervalued. One of our Bright Side readers sent us an e-mail pouring her heart out about a tricky situation she’s going through. And here’s what we think will help.

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From: Maya

Subject: I went home after overhearing my husband and his mom saying they didn’t want me to be a part of the family vacation.

Every year, my husband goes on a family vacation. I asked if I could come. He hesitated, but agreed.

On the third day of the vacation, his parents, brothers, and their spouses were all sitting at a table outside while I was preparing a fruit salad. I overheard my mother-in-law say, “Did she really have nowhere else to go. Couldn’t she spend the weekend elsewhere?” And my husband answered, “I didn’t want to bring her, but she insisted.”

I booked a ticket and went home on the next plane out. He called me, saying that I acted childish because I pushed him to take me, and I eavesdropped. And that now his family is disappointed in me.

I am lost. Can you tell me what to do?
Maya

Sometimes, even in the family circle, we can feel isolated. So don’t be afraid to reach out and try new things. The more people around you who care about you and support you, the better off you’ll be.

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